Daoism & Qi

I used to be a vivid dreamer, ALWAYS. i could always remember dreams so clearly and knew they were dreams even though I felt them. Recently I had a NDE and then had this awakening to my own intuition and suddenly I rarely remember or have dreams. When I do, I have a hard time remembering it as a dream because it just felt like a real life memory and it doesn't hit me until the middle of the day. Any idea as to why this happened?

Many trauma survivors learned that having needs was dangerous. Maybe asking for help led to disappointment. Maybe setting a boundary led to conflict. Maybe expressing feelings led to ridicule, punishment, or abandonment. So we learned to become small. We became easygoing. Self-sufficient. Low-maintenance. We said, “It’s fine,” when it wasn’t. We convinced ourselves we didn’t need much. We became experts at reading everyone else’s emotions while losing touch with our own. For a while, these strategies may have helped us survive. But healing sometimes means realizing that invisibility is no longer protecting us. You are allowed to take up space. You are allowed to say, “I need support.” You are allowed to say, “That hurt me.” You are allowed to ask for reassurance, rest, clarity, kindness, or connection. The people who genuinely care about you do not benefit from a version of you that is constantly disappearing. Healing is not becoming louder or more demanding. It is learning that your needs matter just as much as everyone else’s. You do not have to earn your place by being the easiest person in the room. You already belong.