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Root Chakra Activity #2: The Root Chakra governs our sense of belonging. Addiction often isolates us or surrounds us with people who are actively unhealthy for us. We are going to map our the social landscape to identify who anchors you and who destabilizes you. Create a list inspired by a traffic light by grouping people into green, yellow, and red groups. Green Light: Who supports your recovery? Who makes you feel safe? Who can you call at 3 AM? (e.g., a sponsor, a specific family member, a therapist). Yellow Light: People you love but who might drink/use socially, or who cause you mild stress. Boundaries are needed here (e.g., "I can see them, but only for coffee, not at night"). Red Light: Active users, dealers, or toxic relationships. These connections must be severed or strictly distanced during this phase. When you're finished, write a script for what to say if you hear from anyone in the red light section. Example: "I am taking some time to focus on my health right now, so I won't be coming around for a while."

I have been thinking about a moment from yesterday I’m not proud of. Not pretty. Not spiritual. Not evolved. Just human, messy, reactive. Angry. Jealous. Vindictive. I honestly scared myself. I’m exhausted. Today I felt the old scripts lining up—over-apologize, shrink, fawn, disappear, punish myself for it. Numb it out. Call it proof that I’m damaged beyond repair. Not today. Today I’m going down the more difficult path. I’m looking directly at what I did without flinching—and without turning it into a shame spiral. I’m taking responsibility without abandoning myself in the process. I’m making promises I actually intend to keep. Quiet ones. Real ones. No performance. No self-flagellation. Just boundaries—with myself. Accountability—with teeth. I don’t need to stay the version of me that made that choice. I don’t need to drag her into tomorrow like dead weight. “You're under no obligation to be the same person you were 5 minutes ago.” — Alan Watts I can learn. Adjust. Move different. Five minutes ago me did what she knew. This version of me knows more. And I’m going to act like it.

Parts work changed how I see myself. Instead of “what’s wrong with me?” I ask… “which part of me is here right now?” Because trauma doesn’t create one self. It creates many. For me: Chicken Little — my inner child. Imaginative, curious… but anxious, always bracing for something to go wrong. The Protector Fox — instinctual, sharp, guarded. Shows up as perfectionism, avoidance, escape. I’m learning to tame her with gentle, assertive energy. The Screaming Woman — chaos. Raw pain with nowhere to go. She comes out when things feel too quiet… like peace isn’t safe. She doesn’t want to destroy me—she wants to be heard. Wavy Purple — born in grief. After the fire, after losing my sister, I painted my pain… and something shifted. She’s my creative, wise, scarred self. The Purple Phoenix — what rose from the ashes. Stronger. Clearer. Now helping others rise too. This is parts work. Not fixing yourself. Integrating. Listening instead of suppressing. Understanding instead of judging. When you do this, you stop fighting yourself… and start becoming whole. If you want to begin: • What part is here right now? • What does it feel in my body? • What is it protecting me from? • What does it need? You don’t have to do this alone. Join us for The Parts Work Support Circle 🔥🕊️ Zoom link: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/81390409813

You didn’t “lose your mind.” Your mind did exactly what it needed to do to survive. It split things off. It numbed what was unbearable. It created patterns to keep you safe. The problem is— those same patterns can keep you stuck later. So now you’re here. Not broken. Not starting from scratch. But learning how to update a system that was built in chaos. That’s deep work. And you don’t have to do it alone. 🔥 The Purple Phoenix Collective

Root Chakra Activity#1: We are going to establish a non-negotiable daily rhythm with a focus on sleep hygiene, hydration, and regular meals. The Root Chakra demands rhythm, and when the body knows when it will sleep and eat, the anxiety of "survival mode" decreases. This is not a complex to-do list; it is a survival schedule. You are simply reclaiming the body Here is the mandatory parts for your new vitality routine: Set a specific wake-up time. It doesn't matter when you go to sleep yet, but you must wake up at the same time every day to reset the circadian rhythm. Schedule three "fuel stops" per day. Even if it’s just a protein shake or a piece of fruit, the body must learn that fuel is coming consistently. Cleanse your body each evening, treating it not as a chore, but as a "washing off" of the day's stress.

While the Earth Star was about where you stand (your environment), the Root Chakra is about your RIGHT to stand there. It's located at the base of the spine, and it governs survival, physical safety, family/tribe, routine, and our basic needs. Addiction hijacks the brain's survival mechanisms, making the substance or behavior feel as necessary as food or water; it shatters the Root because it threatens survival and disconnects us from our "tribe." Our goal is to move the nervous system out of "fight or flight" and into "rest and digest" where things are more predictable. You cannot heal if your body feels unsafe. I listened to everyone's feedback, and I realize I was giving everyone too much too fast. So we're cutting back a little this week. I only have three activities for the entire week. First one's coming right up!

I lost my mind—and it changed everything. I don’t mean that metaphorically. I mean my reality fractured. The rules dissolved. What I thought was solid… wasn’t. It was terrifying, disorienting, unreal. But here’s the part no one talks about: When the mind breaks, the body is still there. Breath is still there. Sensation is still there. And in that chaos, I found something real. Not the stories. Not the interpretations. Just the raw, immediate experience of being alive. That experience reshaped me. I don’t trust every thought anymore—and honestly, that’s a relief. I don’t need to analyze everything to death. I don’t need reality to make perfect sense to exist inside it. “Lose your mind and come to your senses.” — Jalāl ad-Dīn Muhammad Rūmī Sometimes breaking is what brings you back.

SHIFT YOUR STATE (fast): THE TIP SKILL 🔥💧 When your nervous system is overwhelmed—whether you’re anxious and spiraling or shut down and frozen—your thinking brain won’t get you out. You have to work with your body first. In Dialectical Behavior Therapy, the TIP skill is designed to quickly reset your nervous system. T = Temperature (cold exposure) → Splash cold water on your face or hold an ice pack to your cheeks/eyes → Triggers a reflex that slows your heart rate → Best for: panic, intense anxiety, emotional overwhelm I = Intense exercise (short burst) → 30–60 seconds: jumping jacks, sprinting in place, push-ups → Burns off stress hormones and activates your system → Best for: anxiety or coming out of freeze P = Paced breathing → Inhale 4 seconds, exhale 6–8 seconds → Longer exhales signal safety to your body → Best for: calming anxiety and grounding (Bonus P = Paired muscle relaxation) → Tense + release muscle groups slowly → Helps you reconnect to your body if you feel numb or disconnected FOR ANXIETY (too activated): Cold + slow breathing → bring it down FOR SHUTDOWN (numb/frozen): Movement + muscle activation → bring it up These are biological switches you can use to shift your state in minutes. You don’t have to wait to feel better to act. Sometimes acting is what changes how you feel. 🟣 The Purple Phoenix Collective

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I am enough exactly as I am.

Parts Work: Learning to Lead Your Inner World I don’t experience myself as one consistent “self.” I experience parts. And honestly, that realization changed everything. In approaches like Internal Family Systems, the mind is seen as a system: • wounded parts that carry pain • protective parts that try to prevent it • reactive parts that step in when it gets overwhelming None of them are random. They all have a job. 🐥 Chicken Little → expects everything to fall apart 🦊 Protector Fox → scans, guards, keeps distance 🌌 Observer → detaches when it’s too much 🔥 Screaming Woman → pure overwhelm when it breaks through 🌊 Wavy Purple → the part of me that can hold it all Healing isn’t about getting rid of these parts. It’s about integration: • noticing who’s activated • getting curious instead of reactive • separating past fear from present reality • building trust inside yourself When parts feel heard, they soften. When they soften, you don’t have to live in constant reaction. You start responding. You start leading. Not a perfect, peaceful self… but a grounded one that can hold complexity. ☯️ The Purple Phoenix Collective

My poem from the workshop: I am a shining star and no one can take the light from my eyes. When my star collapsed into a supernova, I became Wavy Purple. My black hole is the abyss that opens when things get quiet. I attach, I cling, I pull you in like gravity but I am finding more secure attachment now. I have electromagnetism in my boundaries and I attract my desired life. I am a sprawling galaxy, healing day by day and transmuting pain into beauty.

Understanding Shutdown (Dorsal Vagal State) Sometimes it’s not anxiety. Sometimes it’s the opposite. It’s the heaviness. The numbness. The “I can’t move” feeling. That’s the dorsal vagal state—your nervous system shutting things down when everything feels too overwhelming or inescapable. This is a survival response. When you’re in it: • Low energy • Brain fog • Disconnection / dissociation • Slowed breathing • Feeling stuck or frozen Your body is basically saying: “We can’t fight. We can’t run. We’re going offline.” When this becomes chronic, it can look like depression, isolation, and loss of motivation. How to gently come out of shutdown You don’t think your way out—you move your body. Try: • Wiggle fingers/toes, small movements • Slow breath (longer exhales) • Cold water or fresh air • Look around and name what you see (orienting) • Wrap in a blanket or hug yourself • Do one tiny task The goal isn’t to feel amazing. It’s to go from frozen → a little activated → safe enough. Shutdown is common with trauma, especially CPTSD. It makes sense your system learned this. You’re not “lazy.” Your nervous system is trying to protect you. And it can learn something new. 🕊️ The Purple Phoenix Collective

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Earth Chakra Wrap Up: Just take today to think about what you've learned and how it's relevant to you. Do you feel ready to work on the next chakra? It doesn't matter if you did one activity or all five; just see if you're truly ready deep down.

Tonight at 7 pm EST, we gather again inside the field we’ve been quietly building together 💜 The Purple Phoenix Collective’s 8th event, The Universe Within You, is an invitation to explore the strange and beautiful truth that what lives in the cosmos also lives within you—cycles of expansion and contraction, gravity and release, light emerging from darkness. This won’t just be a poetry workshop; it’s a space to listen inward, to translate feeling into symbol, to witness and be witnessed in a way that feels real. Our circles tend to go deep—people open, connect, sometimes touch something they didn’t expect. If you feel even a small pull, trust that. Come as you are, step into the mystery, and see what unfolds ✨ Here’s the Zoom link: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/5546111406?omn=88212433615

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Earth Chakra Activity #5: Ground the chaotic energy of a craving with this tactile art project, the "Root to Earth" Matrix. When you finish, hang this in your Safe Zone. When you feel triggered, visually trace the roots down to the anchor, touch the physical dirt, and read your phrase aloud to ground yourself. Materials: Thick paper, dark ink (or runny paint), a straw, coloring supplies, liquid glue, and real dirt or sand. Instructions:Drop heavy pools of ink at the top of your page. Use the straw to forcefully blow the ink downward, creating chaotic "roots." This physically expels your anxious energy. Let it dry. At the bottom where your ink roots end, draw and heavily shade a solid foundation (like dense stones or earth). Focus on the calming, repetitive motion of coloring. Paint glue over your drawn foundation and press the real dirt or sand into it. This gives you a rough, physical texture you can actually touch. Finish it up by writing a grounding phrase at the bottom (e.g., "I am heavier than the storm").