@Emma J Sorry for not replying sooner...but I was thinking about what you wrote, especially with what happened today. I've been trying to distance myself from A, responding slower to messages and writing less, and she confronted me. Instead of explaining how I felt, I made up an excuse and apologized to her. This made me realize how truly afraid of confrontation I am...so I don't think I'd be able to talk to her without freezing up. But, I do thank you for your advice 🙏 😊

Hey, I think it’s important to talk honestly with her. For example ‘I don’t like the way you treat me lately, is there a reason why this is happening? Try and have an open discussion about it without bitterness or defensiveness. People are going through all kinds of personal issue that we don’t know about and though that doesn’t give them the right to treat us badly, it is good for understanding & knowing where they’re coming from. It can help us make a better assessment of our next steps. All relationships go through challenges and some need to end but some go through challenges to evolve. Have a chat with her and see what the next best step is for you 🫶

Thank you Airyon, seriously, like, you're awesome. ❤️ I'd love to chat some time...you're right, life can be a lot. And, that's an interesting tip, I've never really thought of finding hobbies that way. Im definitely journalling or something about that Well, thanks again, and Id love to talk later...maybe, one day, I can finally say that I've cut that friend out. Only time will tell. Thanks again ☺️

Hello Airyon Thank you for your reply. I read it like five times, seriously, this was really helpful. I've been trying to find new passions of mine beyond being "the smart one" like getting into baking or creative writing, and just focusing on loving myself for myself and not my achievements. However, sometimes, especially when I'm upset, I revert back into old mindsets and start seeing myself as simply numbers on a paper. Im working on it 😅 And, with A, I know I want to cut her out, and I will. For the good of myself, even if I'm not ready just yet. So, thanks for your insights and your help. I really appreciated them ❤️🤗