Thanks you guys imma try it

I don’t think you’re overreacting. That just means you care about the relationship. Loving her while also feeling upset shows how complex family dynamics can be. You deserve to feel heard and respected, too.

Mother daughter relationships can be complicated. Maybe try have a chat with her about how you feel. Do it without blaming to attacking her, just explain that when ‘this’ happens, it makes you feel ‘this’. Explain to her that you’re having this conversation because you want a better relationship with her. If she’s ready to hear it, then great and if not, then you’ve communicated your needs and set up a healthy boundary for yourself.

It's just mother daughter relationship that's it. Same happens with me. My mom sometimes hurts me the most but still she and I love eachother. Sometimes she do discrimination between we 3 sis but that's alright maybe they have qualities I don't. But that's what is relation between us cuz in the end she will be the one with you in your hardest time like mine was with me.