Us former (😊) people pleasers can learn from each other. Fall in love with your peace and your wellness so hard, that hurting yourself never becomes an options again. It’s a journey but each step brings you one step closer to feeling really good with yourself. You deserve to feel good with yourself 🫶 and check out that guy I mentioned, he’s quite direct in his approach but he has some good advice. You’ve got this Reffy 🤗

Hey. That's very kind of you, appreciate it. You're absolutely right about doing what you need without harming yourself. It's worse than being destroyed by who should be raising you during your early life.

Hey. Sorry to hear this. I mean this genuinely; how about learning how to say ‘no’ to people without alcohol? Yes it’s harder work but way more rewarding. As a daughter of a functional alcoholic and granddaughter of one too & a person with an addictive personality, I can tell you that alcohol is fun & it will loosen your tongue but only as an ‘every once in a while’ experience & then you feel like c$&p. The problem is both the alcohol and the feeling of being honest with people is addictive. Why not learn to do it by yourself, you’ll feel better for it and won’t have an addiction to deal with afterwards. I’m not saying it’s easy, I talk from experience that as a past people pleaser… it is hard. But I feel SO good within myself now compared to when I was drinking & my boundaries are solid now, thanks to the practice! There’s a guy on Instagram called the people displeaser (Nick Pollard.) check him out, you deserve to be happy and to find your own strength and boundaries without harming yourself 🙏