Hi all .. ok so , my dad died on Christmas so its been 4 months .. ive been so lost , my step mother has been so out of control everything has to be her way , and mind you my father and her were not legally married .. anyway sorry , so her and I went to pick out his head stone over the weekend , and she proceeds to tell me .. oh yea your mother's plot was a double (she passed in "83") i could have buried my father with my mother , then proceed to tell the woman at the memorial place that there will be nothing on the headstone except "im a toys r us kid" because my father used to say it alot .. not beloved father husband grandfather nothing .. so when I get the email with the rough draft im having them put husband father grandfather on the stone. I'm so angry .. and I'm trying not to be .. because I'm not an angry person at all .. sigh.. sorry this is so long.