Sounds like healthy self awareness to me. Knowing you’re the center of your own world means taking responsibility for your well being, choices, and boundaries— without expecting the world to cater to you. That’s not selfish, it’s self care with self respect

Being the center of your own reality is fine. I would exactly call it self care or selfish. It is what it is. Most if not all humans operate on this level. It would only become selfish if you take advantage of others in the process of thinking about yourself. Just my opinion.

In my opinion, I think we are all the center of our own worlds. We are the only people seeing things and making meaning through our eyes, ears, nose etc…. I think it’s what we do about it & our intentions that determine whether we’re being selfish or acting out of self care.