The enemy loves to use those closest to you to speak through them — it cuts deeper. It leaves a mark you won't forget. It shapes you. You take it so personally, it begins to redefine your identity. You trade the truth of who you are in Christ for the opinions, lies, and curses of others. Move with wisdom, not emotion. An angry heart is a gateway to bondage, and a lack of discernment will leave you spiritually blind. It's not enough to hear people's words — you must see them, discern their source, and understand why they are spoken. Words are like spells, and you must learn to rebuke the curse to receive the blessing. "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits. " — Proverbs 18:21