The danger of having a good heart is that I can love almost anyone. That's why I can't leave relationships up to my will alone. I'll see the good in someone who chooses to live in the dark. I'll love every layer of a person even the parts that are trying to destroy them... and me. My love resists boundaries — not because I don't value myself, but because it's pure, it's childlike. In a fallen world, that is not a safe way to love. I need God to expose. To remove. To shut doors my heart would keep reopening out of compassion. So I no longer ask God to bless who I choose. I ask Him to choose for me. "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." — Proverbs 4:23