Father, thank You for the wisdom that came through that union, even if it came through pain. I ask for grace. Grace to release this person from my desires. Grace to quiet their name in my thoughts. Grace to loosen the emotional ties that still linger in my heart. Where memory tries to replay, bring peace. Where longing tries to rise, bring truth. Where attachment tries to remain, bring freedom. If he is not from You, remove the desire. If he is not in Your will, I break every ungodly soul tie with him and come out of agreement with any covenant I made through my connection to him. In Jesus' name, amen.