I encourage you to start asking God to show you something special about the way He's made you. To some people, He's given a very tender, compassionate heart. Some He has wired to lead others effectively, and others He's created to be excellent followers. Some can cook, some can sew, and some can't do those things, but they're amazing at other things. To some, He has given a gift of being able to communicate clearly, to teach, to make scientific discoveries, or to write beautiful music. Only you can discover all the dynamic gifts He's placed in you. Romans 12:6-8 talks about giving ourselves to our gifts. In other words, we need to find out the things we're designed tor, and then devote ourselves wholeheartedly to exercising those gift.