The Art of Being Preserved Being God's girl looks like saying 'no' to what disconnects you from Him, even if it means being alone. Praying before you panic, speaking to Him before you overshare and being wise enough not to overshare. Dressing like you know the angels are watching too. You are someone's wife, not the world's wife. Knowing God wants you to enjoy your life. There's nothing weak about being the woman God created to nurture, love and build legacy. She's private. She's present. She's protected. She's God's girl.