Hi im so sry about that I honestly don't know what to do cuz I have strict parents and they are in a divorce I'm so sry about this in my opinion I would open up to her and tell her what u feel even if she doesn't care or says the past is the past say that she needs to listen if she doesnt listen to u its her problem cuz shes being a bad mom for not listening to her children which is not ok if she shakes it off go up to her and keep saying it until she understands or tell another adult that knows her and can explain it to her, I hope this helps I tried my best if this doesn't help I'm sry but I hope this helps have a great Christmas! 😊🎄feel better!😊

Hey, she reminds me of my mom a lot. My mum is kind and sweet but it emotionally immature and gives me very mixed love emotional stability. You CANT fix it. She is who she is and you need to learn that she’s a human being with her own issues and is trying to do the best with what she knows. If you can, seek some counseling to help you develop better boundaries and learn when to engage and when to step away and try to learn to validate yourself. Your mom is human, as are you and we are all learning and growing… so try to give yourself the love and security that you wish she could give you. Then when the time is right, you can try talking to her but she not not be ready to understand. That doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you, just hay she’s not open are able enough to understand it yet. Sending you courage 💗💗