a woman will leave a relationship once she has to start acting like a man. when she's the one chasing, fixing, and doing everything alone, something already feels wrong. love shouldn't feel like a job or like she's the only one trying. she doesn't want to lead all the time, she just wants to feel cared for too. when she sees she's giving everything while you stay the same, she slowly gets tired. then she becomes quiet. then distant. and when she leaves, it won't feel sudden. she already made that choice in her heart a long time ago.