Your flaws don't define the entirety of who you are. It's easy to fixate on your mistakes, imperfections, and unhealed ways, but the reality is that you will always have something to work on. You will occasionally fall short. You will not be fond of everything about yourself all the time. And that doesn't make you a terrible, unlovable person. You're just human. So release these high, unattainable expectations that only make you feel more insecure about yourself. You're far from being as awful as you think, I promise.