out of respect, kindly stop telling me about those people i am no longer with. they had me once but didn't value it. that's enough. i'm not angry anymore, and i'm not wishing bad on anyone. i just don't want to keep reopening doors that are already closed for a reason. some people are only part of my past, and i've finally made peace with that. constantly hearing updates about them only disturbs the healing i worked hard for. so please understand when i say i no longer care to know who they are, what they're doing, or where life has taken them. what no longer matters to me should no longer be brought to me.