to be considered is one of the highest forms of love. it's not about being remembered only after the damage is done. it's not about getting an apology when it's already too late. it's about being thought of before the choice is made. that is the difference between someone who says they love you and someone who shows it. real love doesn't rush and fix things later. it pauses and thinks of you first. it chooses with your feelings in mind. once you feel that kind of love, anything less will never feel right.