When you are highly sensitive and targeted by a bully, it never happens in isolation. There are always the enablers, those who excuse it, glaze over, protect the abuser, frame it as a "two-sided conflict," or stay silent. All of them become part of the harm, allowing abuse to continue. Many wear the mask of niceness - the reasonable, empathic, peacekeeper, but beneath it lies a shadow. By refusing to name cruelty, they protect their comfort and self-image, leaving you unheard and alone. What traumatises isn't just the bullying, it's the betrayal of not being heard or believed. Enablers need to be held accountable as much as the bullies themselves.