Sometimes, you have to learn lessons the hard way so that you're pushed to create change in your life. It's much easier to stay the same when you're blind to the ways your behaviors aren't serving you, so take the tragedy, disappointment, or sudden enlightenment as a sign. A sign that a new level is being unlocked within you. A sign that you're ready for something different. A sign that you deserve better than to force a lifestyle that no longer fits. It will suck leaving behind a version of you that felt so familiar for so long, but you have yet to see how full, clear, and aligned your reality will become as a result.