whatever you choose in life, make sure you choose a kind partner. because there will be days when love will not feel like enough. there will be days when both of you are tired, stressed, or too quiet to talk. there will be times when you argue, misunderstand each other, or feel far apart. but a kind partner stays gentle no matter what. they will not shout or say hurtful words when they're angry. they will not shame you for mistakes. so don't just look for someone who makes your heart race, look for someone who makes your heart feel safe. because in the end, anyone can say "i love you," but kindness shows who really means it.