Firstly, you need to know yourself inside and out and be confident in who you areand what you stand for so that no one cantake you away from you. If you've made mistakes in the past, it's important to learn from them, change your behavior, and then forgive yourself. It's hard to love yourself ifyou're constantly bringing yourself down; itmay help to make amends with people too. Recognize if there's anything you need to heal from, e.g., anything from childhood, relationships, friendships, then worktowards shrinking any trauma associatedwith these.