never disturb a girl you're not ready for. don't come into her life if your intentions are unclear, if you only want her when it's convenient. she's not someone you keep around just to fill your boredom. she deserves effort, time, honesty, and consistency. if you're not ready to match her energy, to handle her emotions, or to be consistent, then leave her alone. she's been through enough to know when someone's not real. she doesn't need mixed signals or empty promises. she needs peace, someone who makes her feel safe and loved. so if you're only going to half-love her, don't start. because she'll give her heart fully, and it'll hurt her to realize you never meant to stay. don't disturb her peace if your presence will only leave her more broken than before.