marry an emotionally intelligent man. someone who really listens to you and tries to understand how you feel. someone who talks to you instead of ignoring you when things get hard. someone who can say sorry when he is wrong and learns from his mistakes. marry someone who cares about your feelings and never makes you feel like you are asking for too much. because love is not just about the good days. it is also about choosing someone who respects you, understands you, and still chooses to love you even during the difficult times.