There will be people who will make you feel like you're hurting them when, in reality, they are the ones causing you so much pain. Somehow, they always turn things around and try to convince you that what you're doing is wrong. Such people, they run away from the consequences of their actions. They remain in denial of how their words or their behavior can negatively affect another person. Remember, no matter what they say, don't allow them to get to you. When you're expressing how you feel, or standing up for what you deserve, and they act like you're overreacting, don't believe them. When you point out their red flags, and they try to gaslight you, don't give in to them. Don't let them manipulate you into thinking you're at fault for noticing that you deserve better than what they're offering you.