choose a man who has plans to marry you. not someone who just enjoys your presence, but someone who sees you in his future and makes room for you in it. a man who is clear about his intentions, and includes you in his plans. he builds, not just dreams. he is not afraid of commitment, because he already knows what he wants. choose someone who is ready, not someone you have to wait on. because love should feel like moving forward together, not standing still hoping he stays for good. if he's sure about you, you'll never have to wonder.