being single is a choice for women. it's not about "she has no admirers," because getting a man is actually easy. what's hard is finding the right man in this kind of generation. and i would rather be alone than spend my life with someone who disturbs my peace. being single is not something to feel sad about. it means choosing yourself. it means knowing your worth and not settling just because people expect you to. i would rather wait for something real than force something that only drains me and takes away my happiness. being alone is better than being with the wrong person.