There are moments when you notice how the person you love doesn't treat you the way you treat them. It's little things- how they aren't as eager to hear your thoughts, how they don't appreciate the time you make for them and how often they make you doubt if you're important to them at all. You try to ignore these moments for the longest time but eventually you reach a point where it hurts to be around them. It hurts to watch them take you for granted. That's when you know that no matter how much you love this person, staying with them is not the right choice for you. You recognize how your effort is being wasted on them and you decide, right then, that you deserve better.