It's Not About You When someone doesn't put the effort in with you, it's not about you. When someone doesn't choose to go all in on you, it's not about you. When they walk away from you, it's not about you. When they don't take it to the next level with you, it's not about you. Someone else not choosing you isn't a sign that you're not enough or that you're not lovable. You are enough, whether you're someone else's first pick or not. Anyone who walks away from you makes room for someone better suited for you to come along. We block our blessings when we continue to choose what isn't meant for us. Choose yourself to become available to those who will commit to choosing you every day.