The Kindness That Protects You You've learned the hard way that not everyone deserves your softness. That love without limits can slowly turn into self-neglect. You can still be kind without being a constant giver. Still warm without burning yourself out. It's not cold to protect your peace. It's wise. Because kindness means nothing if it costs your wellbeing. You're allowed to walk away gently, to save the best parts of yourself for people who pour back.