It is necessary to cut the cord between some people. As a soul who gives everyone a chance and wants to see the best in others, always waiting until it becomes impossible to ignore, once disrespect becomes a pattern, it is time to revoke access. Never underestimate the bitterness and resentment which lives within some who want what you have and actively pray on your downfall. Insecurity creates enemies. Boundaries infuriate those who benefit from you having none. Yes, you can ignore them and ensure you are not in the same spaces. But there comes a time when the hint is not received, and you can no longer make excuses for their behavior and how far they are willing to go to infiltrate your peace. They can try to convince themselves that they won by evoking a reaction when you finally decide to remove them from your life. Let them think what they want to think. Their warped perception is not your concern. Their ego can keep them company. Their delusion can keep them warm at night. At least you know, in the bottom of your heart, you gave them a generous amount of chances to treat you with basic decency. And they were not capable of extending that courtesy. Wish for these people to heal, despite the games they played. You carry yourself with class and grace. You are leagues above their drama, and they know it. That is why they tried so hard to tear you down in the first place.
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