Let go of being judged by people who are comfortable staying stupid, dull, lazy, and bare minimum. The freedom you'll feel after that is almost exhilarating. like you dropped unnecessary weight. Just pause for a second and actually look at who you're taking opinions from. Do you really need their advice or validation for anything in your life? If the answer is no, then why give their judgment any space in your mind? Why let it affect you, shape you, or slore you down in any way? You don't owe their opinions that kind of power over your life. They're doing exactly what they want with their time, staying exactly where they are. The real question is, hat do you want to do with yours? Personally, I'd rather spend mine trying new blushes, apparently a red one is having a moment.