Hurting her while she was dealing with family problems, battling her own mind, feeling physical pain, striving for stability, holding back her tears, and still trying to be her best for you. You truly failed as her man. She was already going through so much, but she still chose to stay, to care, and to love you. She didn't ask for much, just a little understanding, patience, and kindness. Instead, you made things heavier for her. You became another reason she felt tired. That kind of pain hurts more because it comes from someone she trusted. And that's what makes it harder to heal from.