Actually, your world does revolve around you-it must. In your story, you're the earth and the sun. This means you must tend to your own soil before you can help another with theirs. You must water your own flowers first. You must be the moon and the stars, shining light into your darkness, and you must be the stillness that calms your own storms. So give yourself permission to put yourself first without asking for forgiveness. Allow yourself to contract before you expand. Step inside yourself and stay there for a while. Offer this as your gift to the world: you, fully bloomed, with an inner world so radiant, it spills outside of yourself and spreads light to everything it touches.