you can also lose your woman when you stop giving her time, effort, and attention. if you stop making her feel special, if you stop replying with excitement, if you no longer show her off proudly, or if you stop noticing the little things about her, she'll start to feel like she's no longer important, and once a woman starts feeling unwanted, unloved, and unseen, something in her slowly changes. she may stay quiet at first, but her heart will slowly pull away. she will stop asking and expecting. and that's when you will slowly start to lose her.