When you heal, you understand that: • Attention isn't love. • Bare minimum isn't ettort. • Healing isn't linear. • Jealousy isn't attection. • Control isn't caring. • Disrespect isn't normal. • Silence isn't peace. • Toxicity isn't passion. • Drama isn't excitement. • Fear isn't loyalty. • Gaslighting isn't acceptable. • Listening isn't understanding. • Dependency isn't security. • Respect isn't optional.