just like a cup of coffee, you may not be everyone's taste and that's okay. some people prefer it sweet, some like it strong, and some don't like coffee at all. it doesn't make the coffee any less good, it just means it's not for them. the same goes for you. not everyone will like you, choose you, or appreciate what you offer, but that's not your fault. you are still enough as you are. the right people will not try to change your flavor, they will enjoy you as you come. so don't water yourself down just to be liked. be yourself, and let the right ones stay.