A better life demands better choices, you cannot ask for growth while holding on to comfort at the same time, because the moment you want more you must be willing to release what belongs to a smaller version of you, and that is why change feels like loss before it feels like gain, you are not just gaining something new, you are letting something go, and the next chapter cannot begin while you are still fighting to stay in the last one, so when you ask for a bigger life, understand you are also being asked to let go, because the moment you stop holding on to what no longer fits you, you finally make space for what does.