Totally Acceptable Ways to Grieve fall apart/ forget to pay your bills/ stop caring/ ignore text messages/ hate every variation of how are you?! forget to eat/ stare at walls and ceilings/ weep in the car unexpectedly/ listen to sad music/ get drunk/ lose sleep/ scream/ hold their clothing close to your nose and breathe them in/ get a tattoo/ feel utterly alone/ have a breakdown/ hide from the world/ travel the world/ heal the world/ get a motorcycle and just leave/ scatter their ashes everywhere/ keep everything/ donate everything/ call their phone/ replay their voicemail/ leave them messages/ start a charity go back to college/ take up skydiving/ get a hobby/ sink into a deep depression/ find God/ quit your job/ get a dog/ stop showering/ sob for any reason/ gain twenty pounds/ run a marathon/ give up/ rediscover yourself/ reinvent yourself/ never stop thinking about them/ WHATEVER YOU NEED TO DO/ FOR AS LONG AS YOU NEED TO DO IT.