We believe the right person will come ready. Perfect. Certain. The one and only. But it doesn't work that way. We all arrive with history. Wounds. Habits. Fears. Unfinished emotional work. Absolutely no one is fully prepared for your needs specifically. In that sense, relationships don't just require readiness. They create it. Being the "right" for someone is an ongoing decision. It's choosing to listen. To adapt. To apologize. To learn. To change. On both sides. It's not about finding someone who's flawless. It's about finding someone who's willing to become flawless with you.