make sure that the person you are choosing over everyone else is choosing you first too. love shouldn't feel like constantly proving your worth or waiting to be noticed. if you are making them a priority, they should be doing the same for you. relationships grow when effort, care, and commitment come from both sides. don't lose yourself trying to earn a place in someone's heart while they keep you as an option. choose someone who chooses you with certainty, consistency, and the same love you freely give.