but the right man will change his habits that bother you. he won't say, "that's just who i am," or make you feel like you are asking for too much. instead, he will try to understand why something affects you. he will pay attention to what bothers you and slowly work on it. not because you forced him, but because your feelings matter to him. he will remember the little things that make you uncomfortable and try to do better next time. the right man doesn't change because he has to. he changes out of love.