i will marry a man who speaks with love even when he's angry. a man who chooses gentle words even when he's upset, who stays patient with my emotions, and reassures me instead of leaving me alone with my thoughts for hours. a man who never makes me feel like i'm too much to handle, and understands that sometimes i'm not trying to argue, i just want to feel heard and understood. a man who values our relationship more than being right, who chooses kindness over pride, and would rather let go of an argument than risk losing me.