People-pleasing and unhealed trauma often make you tolerate mistreatment, disrespect, anger issues, cruelty, and even abuse-just to avoid upsetting someone or making them mad. You shrink yourself so others can feel comfortable, hoping they'll like you. But healing changes everything. You begin to understand that being liked by everyone isn't possible-and it's not your job. Some people will dislike you no matter what you do; they'll search for reasons to be dissatisfied, and it has nothing to do with you. True healing is when their opinions no longer shake your peace, and you genuinely couldn't care less who doesn't like you.