Self-love doesn't live somewhere in the future -it only exists here and now. Even when you find the relationship, secure the job, or receive the recognition - the patterns of self-talk you've practiced will remain. Our inner dialogue is not shaped by the external world, but is a reflection of our internal beliefs. The way you speak to yourself today builds the foundation for who you'll become tomorrow. So be intentional with your words and gentle with your thoughts. Be reflective of your heart and careful with your judgements. Be radically accepting and forgiving of your humanity.