choose the one who never raises their voice, even when they're mad. the one who doesn't insult you or make you feel small just because they're angry. the one who knows how to talk calmly instead of turning every misunderstanding into a fight. the one who listens and chooses to understand instead of trying to win the argument. because the right person won't raise their voice to prove a point, they'll speak gently because they care about how their words make you feel. they'll choose peace over pride and patience over anger. when something goes wrong, they'll look for a solution, not someone to blame. being with a person like that will make you feel safe, not scared. and that's the kind of love that lasts.