Whatever you choose in life, make sure you end up with a kind partner. there will be days when love alone will not be enough. there will be days when you are both tired, upset, or even distant, but a kind person is a kind person regardless. they Will not shout at you when they are angry. they will try to understand instead of hurting you with words. they will not embarrass you or make you feel small when you make mistakes. they will stay gentle even when they are tired. kindness is what makes arguments calmer, and it is what makes problems easier to face together. so don't just look for someone who makes your heart race, but look for someone who makes your heart feel safe. because in the end, anyone can say they love you, but kindness shows who really means it.