My standards are not too high, You're just not willing to meet them. I'm not asking for expensive gifts or someone who has everything figured out. I just want honesty, consistency, respect, reassurance, and effort. I want someone who communicates instead of disappearing when things get hard. Someone who stays faithful even when no one is watching. Someone who makes me feel chosen, valued, and understood. Bare minimum things suddenly become "too much" when the wrong person is giving them. The truth is, the right person will never make you feel guilty for asking for what you deserve. If someone truly wants you in their life, they will try, not just when it's convenient for them, but every single day. Standards are not the problem. Lack of effort is.