I have finally realized that it's not noble to put up with someone's mistreatment just because I empathise with them. It only allows them to exploit me, drain my energy, and shatter my inner peace. Now I understand I can empathize and grasp their reasons behind their actions, yet still refuse to tolerate how they treat me. No scars justify their actions. Despite my best efforts, I cannot guide them on the path to healing unless they choose to embark on it. Hurt people don't have to hurt people. So stand up for yourself and don't allow disrespect. If you could be kinder to people after all the pain you went through, they could too... if they wanted to.