Here's a little advice for people who love assuming, try something radical for once. Do one simple thing before assuming, ask, yes, it's really that simple. Try it sometime, you might actually be surprised how different things turn out. Reality tends to be far less dramatic than the stories you script in your head. Because the world doesn't run on the fictional stories you create in your head. Things don't magically change just because you decided to interpret them differently. That's not how it works, reality doesn't bend itself to your assumptions. It just quietly proves you wrong while you're still busy believing yourself. People around you aren't here to live their lives based on what you think. Or make decisions according to narratives you built without facts. Maybe we should assume you're good for nothing and only capable of creating chaos, see how that feels.