they say a relationship only works if the guy loves the girl more. and i think i finally know the reason why. for a man, what he feels matters. for a woman, how he makes her feel matters. he will stay as long as he loves her. she will stay as long as she feels loved. a man might hold on because his heart tells him he wants her. but a woman will hold on because her heart tells her she is wanted. a woman's love grows through the care she receives. if she feels secure, she gives back even more. but if she feels forgotten, no matter how much she loves, she will start to pull away. that's why his love matters so much. in the end, love is not only about staying. it's about giving the other person enough reason to stay too.